a manifesto for courageous authenticity
I have approximately ZERO chill when it comes to certain religious beliefs. One such notion is that God shows favour, blessing, and love in particular ways…as in health, finances, physical comfort, and all things well. This gives me cringey, ranty feelings. Does God sometimes do this? Yes. Does this mean God loves us and is “blessing” us? Maybe. Does a…
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For some years, this has been a day of angst for me. One that my body remembers before my mind catches up. Heaviness lies across my shoulders. My head aches and throbs. Anxiety encumbers deep, full breath. My old brain is braced to fight, or flee, or freeze. But I do not wish for this date to forever hint at…
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Beginning again feels like a visceral “NO FREAKING WAY” in your guts. Until it doesn’t. Until you realize you’ve actually already begun. Until you look back and realize you’re no longer where you were. Beginning again feels like grasping along a dark corridor, tentatively making your way down the staircase, searching with your toes, unsure of where the next step…
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Grief is not something that happens to us, but with us. Because of love. Because we’ve lost something. Because something was taken. Grief is our guide on the journey, not our kidnapper. A partner, not a foe. A companion, not a bully. A teacher, not an abuser. A gift, not a thief. Paradoxically, the deeper the wells of grief are…
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I don’t remember who taught me to play chess. Maybe my dad? I just remember knowing how to play. The game was dormant in me for years, but when my son was in primary school, I taught him to play. He caught on quickly, and I began needing to strategize and actually think through my plays. No, there were no…
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